Life has felt harried and hectic for so long that I can hardly remember a time that I truly enjoyed a moment without a long list of to-do’s distracting my focus.
Until today, that is. I stopped by to drop off a few things for a friend, and stayed for tea, pumpkin cheesecake, and good company.
I didn’t sit at her table and think of a million other things that needed to be done. I didn’t sit at her table and try to mentally balance my checkbook, or worry about my most recent marketing attempt, or the next truck coming in.
I got to enjoy the conversation, the tea, and the treat without worry and distraction.
When I got back home, feeling refreshed and joyful, I had some soul-searching to do. It’s not that I suddenly have nothing to do. It’s not that I’m at my leisure 24/7. But I am seeing clearly that it is possible to have too much to do. It is possible to chase so much of the wrong stuff (maybe good stuff, but not the best stuff) that we can’t enjoy what we have.
Friends, tea with each other is the best stuff (or coffee, or smoothies, or cake). Muddy kids playing on a warm January day is the best stuff. Creating, crafting, writing… this is the best stuff.
We don’t have to agree about what is best – what matters is that we sift through the noise, the chaos, and cultural expectations to figure out what our own personal version of the best stuff is.
I’m going to pursue more of the best stuff. More time with the people I love, family & friends, more time creating, more time focused.
I’ve found that pursuing the best stuff postures my heart to worship God moment by moment. When I’m not mired in too much of the wrong stuff, I can see God more clearly and worship Him more freely.
I think I’ll write in the morning about how God has been speaking to me about worship lately.
Until next time,
1 thought on “Time with Friends”
Thank you for sharing these words. I too find myself surrounded with so much stuff, all good stuff, but not really the best stuff that I loose sight of the great moments. The great moments when I watch my children become stronger more independent, the moments when those close to me are struggling. I find it incredibly inspiring to read this, I want to chase the best stuff too! Thank you Mrs. Walker!